There is no one right way to cope. Each person has unique strengths and vulnerabilities. The key is to come up with a plan that will give God room to bring healing to your wound.
Do:
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Relax and rest
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Eat nutritiously (Avoid sugar)
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Exercise
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Get more than enough sleep
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Talk about what happened (to God and others)
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Write about what happened (journaling, letters, e-mails)
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Laugh when you can
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Set small goals
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Keep some sort of routine
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If safe, stay in familiar environment
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Spend time with those who are supportive and helpful
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Cry if you can
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Pray
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Reflect in the Word
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Sing or listen to music
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Educate yourself about traumatic reactions
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Know that the intensity of the pain will not continue forever
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Anticipate difficult times to come
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Search and find perspective and meaning in the event
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Ask for help and let others help you
Don't:
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Make major decisions
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Set up an active travel or speaking schedule
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Drink alcohol
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Drink caffeinated drinks
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Take sedating drugs (i.e., valium, sleeping pills)
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Talk publicly about sensitive details soon after trauma
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Make broad generalizations about yourself, future, others